Black Love!?!?!?

Wayna, for those who don't know, is an Ethiopian bred songstress who will soon be a force to be reckoned with!! Her first single "My Love" makes me think of my past...it makes me think of women who are silent AND....drumroll...Rhianna and Chis Brown...HOT DAMN!!

Whatever, yeah I went there because in all honesty, too many "cute and personable men" get away with this shit because no one wants to believe that they are capable of violence!! BULL SHIT!! Don't get it twisted!! Why is it that people don't want to believe that fat meat is greasy!? It is what it is and when someone shows you who they are...believe them!! (shout out to Maya Angelou) Anyhew...

I'm disappointed in Rhianna, yet understanding in the same breath! I know how something can look like Candyland on the outside and be the story of Hansel and Gretel behind closed doors!! We are all public figures, whether we be famous or not...someone is looking at us...someone is watching us...someone is looking up to us, so what kind of example are we setting for our little girls? And brothas, if you won't admit your faults, what are you really teaching our little boys?

Accept the responsibility that comes along with the smiles and winks you get on the regular!! If you want to be loved in public, you gotta be willing to be judged in public!! Don't just show the biscuit without showing the jelly and the butter.

I pray that more women will "press charges" and I pray that more men will "think it through" beforehand...better yet, before hands are laid.

Black Men, we (I) love you so much....your women need you so much, so don't fight the very people/person(s) who want to push you (not physically) to greatness!!